Phones remember almost every number for us — which means many children (and plenty of adults) no longer do. Every household should keep a short, easy-to-find emergency contact list that children and caregivers can use if a parent cannot be reached.
Who should be on the list?
- Parents or guardians and their mobile numbers
- One nearby relative, neighbor or trusted family friend
- One out-of-area family contact
- Grandparents or other close relatives
- School, daycare or regular caregiver
- Pediatrician or family doctor
- Veterinarian if the family has pets
- Home address, including apartment or unit number
Keep a paper copy
Do not rely only on a phone. Keep a printed copy somewhere predictable, such as inside a kitchen cabinet, near the family calendar or with emergency supplies. Give copies to regular babysitters and caregivers.
Choose a local safe person
Identify a trusted adult nearby whom your child knows personally. Make sure that person knows they are part of the plan. Children should know the person's full name, where they live and when it is appropriate to contact or go to them.
Practice without frightening kids
Occasionally ask simple questions: “What is our address?” “Who could you call if you couldn't reach us?” “When would you call 911?” The goal is familiarity, not fear.
Review it twice a year
Phone numbers, schools, caregivers and neighbors change. Review the list about every six months and whenever the family moves or a regular contact changes.